What If You're Not Just Heartbroken... You're Infected?

I used to think breakups were just emotional pain.

But after living through the most destructive collapse of my life, I learned the truth:

You don’t just lose them.
You lose who you thought you were inside that relationship.
And that’s what breaks you.

My collapse wasn’t simple. It was a betrayal sandwich.

I cheated on my wife—with a married woman I thought I loved.
She cheated on me—with a third man.
And I confessed—not out of guilt—but because I was wrecked and needed support…
from the very person I betrayed.

Yes. That’s how lost and damaged I was.

And it was not because of the affair, it is what caused it
I betrayed my wife.
I was betrayed by the woman I betrayed her with.
And worst of all?
I betrayed myself.

If it sounds insane, ridiculous and like I got exactly what I deserved, you are right

But it gets even worse...

I was a doctor. A coach. I was even a couples counselor for a time.
I had the books. The training. The frameworks. I thought I had "done the work."

But none of it worked.

Because the problem wasn’t mindset. It was M.U.D.

Misguided. Unconscious. Decisions.

Old stories that were hidden deep in my nervous system—formed from childhood patterns of guilt, abandonment, performance, and pain.

And no one teaches us how to find this MUD and clean it up.

So what do we do?

We call it heartbreak.
But it’s not.

It’s emotional infection.
It’s subconscious programming.
It’s identity collapse.

And until you change the story running in your deep mind—
You’ll keep bleeding in the same places with different people.

From Collapse to Conscious Creation

MUD Didn’t Just Hurt Me—It Built Me

Looking back, I see the pattern clearly.
Pain was always trying to teach me something.
But I was too armored, too ego-driven, too programmed to hear it.

As early as six or seven, I was drawn to depth—sitting with crying kids at the lunch table, wondering why no one else noticed the pain.
In my teens and twenties, I was obsessed with lucid dreaming and the deeper mechanics of consciousness.

But somewhere along the way, I got hijacked.
Performance. Success. Praise. Achievement.
I became the “fitness and metabolism guy.”
I had the credentials, the accolades, the identity.

But none of that protected me from what came next:

• A betrayal sandwich that shattered every illusion I had about love, loyalty, and who I thought I was

• Watching my mother face kidney cancer—and realizing none of my science tools were enough

• Losing millions overnight when my business collapsed—and with it, every ego layer I’d built

Each one cracked me open.

And finally, instead of trying to outrun the pain—I let it teach me.
I let it rewire me.
I let it show me the parts of myself I hadn’t built yet.

That’s where DEEP was born.

Not as a spiritual download.
Not as some divine calling.
But as the system I had to create because nothing else worked.

And when I started using it with clients—something radical happened.

• Lifelong patterns dissolved in hours

• Emotional wounds began healing—without therapy or psychedelics

• People left toxic relationships, reconnected with purpose, rewired identity itself

This isn’t self-help.
This is self-construction.

You’re not returning to your true self.
You’re building a self your pain was trying to demand into existence.

The Breakup Reinvention Cohort isn’t a path back.
It’s your way out.

💔 Why You Still Don’t Trust Coaching, Therapy, or Healing Anymore

Let’s tell the truth no one else will:

If you feel numb… jaded… like none of it works anymore…

It’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because your brain’s failure system—your habenula—is in overdrive.

The habenula is like an emotional tripwire. When it gets triggered over and over—by breakup pain, false promises, or failed programs—it starts to suppress your belief in change.

You start thinking…

You should be over them by now.
You should be stronger.
You should’ve known better.
And when you’re not?
You don’t just lose trust in the process.
You lose trust in yourself.

This is how it sounds in your head:

“You miss them? You’re pathetic.”
“You cried again? You’re weak.”
“You’re still checking their social? You must not be healing.”

It’s shame disguised as discipline.
And most coaching and healing programs make it worse.

They hit you with mindset hacks, journaling prompts, and “just love yourself” mantras—
All while reinforcing that same message:

“If it’s not working, it’s your fault.”

That’s why you’re done listening.
Why your system has gone numb.
Why even the thought of trying again makes your stomach turn.

We don’t play that game here.

The Breakup Reinvention Cohort is built for the hijacked nervous system—and we use two key approaches that reverse this failure cycle:

✅ Semper Discendum (Always Be Learning)

We eliminate shame-based success/failure thinking.
Every session is a revelation. Every relapse is data.
No collapse. Just transformation through truth.

✅ Compassion-Centered Identity Reconstruction

We rewrite the inner dialogue so your system can receive change as nourishment, not punishment.
We don’t just motivate you.
We remother the parts of you that never learned to stay through pain.

This is why our clients feel safe to go deep.
And why the results actually last.

💥 What Makes This Different from Every Breakup Program, Therapist, or Retreat You’ve Tried?

Here’s the hard truth:

💔 Therapy helps you spot the pattern—but it can’t shift the nervous system state that keeps reliving it.

💬 Coaching gives you goals and tools—but those collapse when the old identity kicks back in.

🌿 Psychedelics open the subconscious—but without structure, the integration slips away like a dream.

✨ Energy work soothes your system—but doesn’t rewrite the story that’s still running you.

This isn’t that.

The Breakup Reinvention Cohort doesn’t numb the pain.
It walks you straight into it—lucid, supported, rewired.
And it’s built on a 3-part system that works where the wound actually lives:

🔹 REWRITE – Weekly DEEP Sessions

Through breath and subconscious access, you enter the nervous system state where the original heartbreak (and childhood attachment wound beneath it) lives.
You don’t just process the breakup—you revisit the exact scene and rewrite the script from the root.

🔹 REWIRE – Somatic + Emotional Anchoring

We use body-based rewiring to shift your baseline—so the new story doesn’t just “make sense,” it becomes your emotional truth.
This isn’t mindset. This is emotional repatterning.

🔹 RETRAIN – Identity Coaching + Curriculum + Community

Your nervous system doesn’t believe words. It believes repetition.
We train the new identity into your daily life—with practices, feedback, and a space to be seen as the new you before the world reflects it.

You’ve read the books.
You’ve done the healing work.
But until now, no one gave you the exact process to:

🧠 Access the wound
💥 Rewrite the story
🌱 Rewire the nervous system
🛠 Retrain the identity

This isn’t self-help.
This is the emotional rehab your last relationship made necessary.

Why Trust Me With This Process?

Because I didn’t just study heartbreak.
I lived through the kind that shatters your identity.

I was the guy with the degrees.
A doctor. A coach. A published author.
I knew psychology, mindset, healing modalities. I even taught couples counseling.

But none of it saved me when my marriage imploded from an affair I caused…
Only to be betrayed in the exact same way.
I didn’t just betray my wife. I betrayed myself.
And when that happened—none of the books, tools, or teachers worked.
Because the story running my life wasn’t in my mind—it was in my nervous system.

That collapse broke me open.

And over the next decade, I rebuilt.

Not with hacks or hype—but with the exact process I now teach:
A structured way to go into the unconscious, rewrite the identity that pain built, and come out clean.

DEEP isn’t something I found.
It’s something I forged.
Because I had to.

It’s what I used to finally get free.
It’s what I’ve now guided hundreds of others through.
And it’s why I’m certain:

If you’re stuck in a loop of longing, regret, or heartbreak…
This is the most powerful process I know.

And it works when nothing else does.